Writing Sensual Erotica - Word Play Dazzle Or Blunt Deliciousness

Disclaimer : This blog entry has course language and sensual situations - You have been warned.

Lets face it.....We ALL like to FUCK.

Fuck on the bed
Fuck in the car
Fuck in the shower,
Hell...fuck ANY WHERE. Its natural, the primal formation of two remade into one, bringing every human being into physical existence on this earth (though a few seem to be hatched from serpent eggs, but I will that judgement call up to you).
As with every red-blooded American, I love the sensual touch of that special someone. It makes me whole, feeling special, even powerful. That is  the type of feeling I want to exude through 'The River'.

Now, don't get me wrong, Slick and Benjimen are not choir boys, more than often, like most men of their ilk, they 'Fuck' versus 'Making Love', which is a WHOLE other animal in itself, trust me.
But that is the difference; "hard smashing of wet lips,igniting laden lust made silky and hot"
- versus
"soft pecks,admiring feats into the smallest of glorification and light".

As you can see or read, there IS A DIFFERENCE.

As an author,it is my job to understand the said difference, celebrating each with the right prose and imagery. But here comes the inner battle I fight, more so with this book.

Can I let out my 'sexual beast' and not be shunned ?

Sexual beast you say....
Here I'll give you an example,utilizing the same imagery from the above sentence.

"Hard smashing wet lips, igniting lower as Slick's thick creamy cock presses between Kelly's silken thighs. Suddenly, as the lovers gently maul each others  lips, lust laden needs are ignited,made silky and soft,hardened flesh prying  open, deeper,sliding  into  a hot wet need made even more bold."

Its kind of 'flowery' for my taste, but its so much better than saying this - now brace yourselves.

"Slick kisses Kelly hard, feeling his fat thick dick press against  her tight sweet cunt,sliding it in slightly,hearing his wife gasp."

Ok...to me - that's simply disgusting. I love it....but Its disgusting and will NEVER find it way into my writing. EVER!

But even in that lovely filth just written above, the reader gets the point, it aggressive and virile, off putting as if one is watching these two about to get it on - BUT its hot as fuck!

So, how can I STILL be 'flowery' and still HOT AS FUCK!

That's the trial I am arriving at while writing "The River'.
These men are killers, they love and adore woman and they LOVE TO FUCK.  So I find myself saying ; 'Pussy', 'Dick',Cock' as well as a host of delicious words within their southern accented  dialogue.

Not a problem, but when that happens, is my writing transformed into 'Erotica' ?

Trust me, in 'The River', there is a LOT of sex. I guess  I am just trying to prepare the world for a sensual part of myself to be shown,scrutinized and judged. DO I really care.

Naw....just as long as it turns you on.